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What exactly is “How are you?”.
These 3 words form a very short sentence yet, it holds so many meanings behind it.
Conversation Starter
One of the first few things people learn to say in English is “How are you?”. Often used as an icebreaker to get a conversation started and make things less awkward. Or form some level of bond before diving into deeper conversations.
A Gauge of Who You Are
- Are you perhaps an introvert, an extrovert or a social butterfly?
- Can you continue a conversation and make it interesting?
- Do you prefer talking on a superficial level or a deeper one?
- Perhaps you will bring up something which allows them to know what you like e.g Music, football and gaming.
To Make Someone’s Day
Imagine feeling horrible and absolutely drained out after a long day of work. There you are, sitting alone with your head down and someone pats you on the shoulder and ask you, “How are you?”. You may not want to share the details but knowing that there is someone there for you and you are not by yourself feels comforting. That indescribable warmth which is somehow capable of soothing the heart.
